What is our innate power? I see it as our personal force built and sustained upon the following: Our sense of self Our instincts Our spirit Our freedom Our sense of agency Our autonomy Our choice and decision-making Our rights Our personal responsibility for ourselves Our joy and passion Our confidence Our trust in ourselves …
Fear of judgement can be debilitating to the point that it prevents a person from being themselves and leading the life they want for fear of what others may think of them. Fear or judgement is such a waste of energy, talent and lives. It is paramount that we work to dissolve this fearful trance …
I believe our power is our sense of self. The stronger it is, the stronger we are. The better we see and know ourselves, the more powerful we feel. How can a narcissist cause us to lose our sense of self? Narcissists can affect our sense of self both when we are children and adults. …
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If you have been in a relationship with a narcissist, especially raised by one, you may find that you struggle in life. That struggle comes from the impact the narcissist’s insanity has had on your psyche. Being around the narcissist with his sick and twisted mind has disturbed your inner peace. Being who you are …
Who is that for you? Is that your parent, your child, your partner? I’d like to think that it is you. You are the most important person in your life. I am the most important person in my life and so it goes on. We are the most important people to ourselves. Before our minds …
Have you ever experienced talking to someone and realising that the other person cannot hear you? They cannot hear you not in terms of physical hearing but in terms of taking in what you say, considering it and giving you constructive feedback. You get an impression that you talk to an empty space, that you …
This is very painful. To think, to even consider the concept of meeting your grief for your loss, makes you shudder and want to run away. But there’s nowhere to run away from it. Well, not really. It’s always here, at the outskirts of your consciousness. So here we are. Maybe if we face it …
What have we lost? Healing grief after narcissistic abuse. Read More »
Narcissists are unable to tolerate aliveness in all beings. It truly scares them and if it is in their way it enrages them. They are unable to see the brilliance, the purity, the wondrous vibration of the alive universe. Instead they have a binary view of the world: is this thing a resource for me …
A message to everyone recovering from narcissistic abuse. Wake up. Remember. You are enough. Just as you are. Everything else is someone’s story you’ve picked up and made your own. It’s an illusion and to believe someone saying to you that you are not enough is to believe they have absolute authority on you. No …
