Why is it so difficult to live? Why does life seem so complicated? Why are order and consistency out of reach? Why is there this constant feeling of heaviness, pain, pressure, despondence, emptiness, exhaustion and burnout? Why is it so difficult to achieve your goals, big or small? Even the basic daily tasks seem impossibly …
A selfless person is someone who cares for other people’s needs and desires more than for her own needs and desires. When bringing up and socialising children our society encourages selflessness. Selflessness is told to be a virtue. And so because we are told that this is something good, something to strive towards, something to …
The antidote to fear of being judged is to understand what it is and how to resolve it. Once you know what you are dealing with, you’ll start to develop immunity to it. So, if you find yourself fearing other people’s judgement, here are some things to consider that may help you start dissolving that …
Intro and situation description The other day I was in a cafe and witnessed the following situation. An elderly couple entered the cafe. (Note: for the sake of simplicity let’s assume that they are married but the dynamics we’re discussing here could apply to any other relationship as I believe they are universal. Also, ultimately …
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