Boundaries

Is being selfless good?

A selfless person is someone who cares for other people’s needs and desires more than for her own needs and desires. When bringing up and socialising children our society encourages selflessness. Selflessness is told to be a virtue. And so because we are told that this is something good, something to strive towards, something to …

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A narcissist does not take no for an answer when you refuse their help?

You may have had an experience of someone offering you their help and when you say no, they just would not let go and keep insisting on helping you until you give in. Let’s have a look at what’s going on here. This is one of the disordered person’s strategies to gain control over you. …

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Dissolving fear of judgement

Fear of judgement can be debilitating to the point that it prevents a person from being themselves and leading the life they want for fear of what others may think of them. Fear or judgement is such a waste of energy, talent and lives. It is paramount that we work to dissolve this fearful trance …

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